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Compatibility… Again.

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A Mans Mind is Elevated to the Status of the Woman He Associates Himself With

I had to expound on this one. Do you remember this?

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We all have that one person that (at one point of our life) we would have done anything for he/she to like us back …

But they didn’t …And that’s ok. You lived for another day –

You Moved On.

We now realize there’s always a bigger plan in life. Everyday we see how God strategically places what and who we need in our life vs what and who we want.

As we mature in life and relationships we learn patience, timing, the

Beauty of moments

we shift from knowing to understanding that

“Two Quality People Doesn’t Mean You Are Compatible”

There are so many elements that contribute to TRUE compatibility – Timing, Upbringing, Past Experiences, Past Relationship Experiences, Values, Religion/Spirituality, the Balance of religion and spirituality, Sex, Financial Status (or lack of), Family Structure, Family Outlook, Personality, Goals, Optimism or lack-of, Hobbies, Thoughts about Gender Roles, present Mental state, Future Vision, Reputation /Image (whether true or false), First Impression, First Date, First Kiss… And the list goes on and on.

When things don’t work out –

Grow From It.

Analyze what BOTH of y’all did GREAT and take an honest inventory of what could have been better. You never know when the Law Of Attraction will reward your patience and growth.

Focus on being a better YOU!



It’s amazing how many elements contribute to TRUE compatibility.

Timing, upbringing, past experiences in life, past experiences in specifically relationships, values, religion/spirituality, the balance of religion and spirituality, sex, finance, family structure, approach to conflict resolution, stress coping mechanisms, family outlook, personality, goals, optimism or lack of, hobbies, gender role beliefs, present mental state, future vision, reputation/image (whether true or false), first impression, first date, first kiss…

Sheesh and I’m sure the list continues…

Two quality people does not mean they are compatible.

Marriage “MUST ASK” 21st Century Question

Will I stay with him/her after they cheat on me?